Teenage is an age of wonderland where no kid likes to listen to any advice and loves to discover life by him/her. This age of kids can be hard for parents and guardians to manage with because it is easy to nurture a kid and deal with him/her until he or she hits the adolescent age. And in the same way teens also think that neither their parents nor tutors can understand them. Parents-children bond needs to be healthy otherwise this directly affects their learning in their school life. Many studies have demonstrated that a strong parents-children relationship gives a child good mental health, provides success in academy life, makes the child have a sense of belongingness which encourages the kids to run after their ambitions and goals in their school/college life and make them achieve self-esteem. Even school management takes this topic very seriously that teen students need special care and attention in schools and colleges too therefore school management takes help of the school management system where school management system induces tools like LMS portal to make learning easy for students. LMS portal is that tool which also keeps online learning of students safe, therefore it helps teen students to accomplish their goals in online learning without getting irritated. It is proven that a strong parental connection and guidance in anyone’s life during teenage years brings self-esteem and a high level of resilience in them ahead in life.
It is a little complicated for parents to understand the teen mind of their child usually and to stay connected with a teen child is a very tough task but not impossible. Parents need to understand that teen kids being student has to spend the whole day in school and afterwards in completing homework and assignments received from school as homework so they also need some personal space and time to calm down from whole day hectic schedule so parents should assisting them in this task instead of complaining and poking nose in their daily routine. In addition it is not like teenage kids don’t love their parents but they express this in their own way because sometimes they are completely unaware of ways to express their love for their dear ones. So, parents need to guide their children to maintain their connection with their kids with the help of family bonding time like family gatherings in the name of weekly pizza nights or veggie party or movie night for family etc. where complete family can enjoy the a quality time which can show the teen kids that all happiness lies with family and dear ones.
Sometimes it can be very tempting for parents to talk with teens and know about their generation things and how the schools and study is going on, still it is necessary for the parents to keep their curiosity aside and listen to their teen kid with full concentration which can make him/her think that really they are being heard carefully and they can vent out everything from their heart and mind. Let the kids talk about their issues, maybe you can help them in their assignment which is bothering them. Being parents use a gentle touch to maintain the border line of respect but never feel shy total on tough topics like career, sex, changes in body & emotions, death, knowledge, life etc. which even teen kids also feel shy because then who will guide them if parents will feel shy. This way your teenage kid will get proper knowledge not from a magazine but from his/her own parents plus teenage kids need to know about such grave topics and should be efficient enough to deal with such topics.
It is very common that teenage kids outburst in anger and they cannot control their anger and temperament because being young they assume they don’t need anyone for anything though later they regret when their temper cools off. So, in such situations parents need to stay calm and silent because as being older you have experience and you know that anger gets defeated in front of politeness. And the kid’s anger cools off then makes them understand with love and affection what their fault was and what should be done to solve the situation. Following the above enumerated tips parents can stay connected to their teen kids and can see them perform the best in their academic life also.